Ever since I started blogging, I've been thinking a lot about reviews. Most of my reviews are about books that I like. A few aren't. Before I started blogging, I didn't think of reviews as positive or negative. I thought of them as HONEST opinions. Now, I'm really starting to see that a lot of bloggers don't like to write reviews for books they didn't like. I can sort of understand that. I mean, if I don't like a book, why would I want to discuss it and risk hurting the author's feelings? But on the other hand, I think I'm entitled to my say how I feel about a certain book, as long as I'm not being demeaning or malicious.
I've heard many bloggers say that they don't write reviews for books that they didn't enjoy. I totally get that because it's hard to tell someone who worked so hard on a book that it wasn't enough. But when I write my reviews, I'm not thinking about how the author is going to feel when they read it. I'm thinking about honestly telling them what I think so that they can decide whether they want to change it or not. I am, by no means, a professional reviewer. I can't critique for beans. All I do is offer my opinions.
I know the author may not like what I have to say. But the beauty of my opinions is that the author could completely DISREGARD them if he/she wants to. I'm a 16 year old girl. My opinions are affected by many things: experiences, personality, peer influence, family influence. Everyone is different. We all feel differently about books.
When I started reviewing, it didn't cross my mind that I should hold back on reviews for the books I didn't like. I simply thought, "I read a book and I felt something about it. I'll just share what I felt and see how others felt as well." No big deal right?
But then I wrote a sort-of negative review. To me, it wasn't negative in the least. I wasn't trying to be rude or mean when I gave my opinions on the book. I just stated the aspects that I enjoyed and didn't enjoy. I didn't think it was wrong at all. Then, in the comments, people started thanking me for being honest. I thought to myself, "Why am I being thanked right now? I was honest in all my other reviews too."
I think there's a fine line between being honest and being malicious. I've read many reviews where the reviewer says some horrible things about the book and the author. I always keep in mind that the author, editor, publisher, etc., worked incredibly hard to bring the book before the readers. Their effort is not lost on me. Which is why I try to remain respectful while being honest. I try to OFFER (not FORCE) suggestions for improvement. It's completely up to the author to listen to my suggestions or not. In fact, since I'm so new to the blogging world, I'm pretty sure that authors don't read my reviews because they're unaware my blog even exists.
I want my followers to realize that I respect and honour books, no matter how I feel about them. In turn, I respect the author and everyone involved in making the book possible.
I usually don't have an issue with saying what I feel as long as it's true to me and doesn't harm anyone. I'm open to others' opinions as well and I'm willing to change my own if I'm proven wrong or hurtful.
Sometimes, I feel like my "negative" (read: honest) reviews may be hurtful to some people. Does that mean I shouldn't reveal them publicly on the blog? I don't think so. I'm entitled to my own opinions. But I don't want to hurt anyone either which is I'm beginning to feel very conflicted.
All I'm trying to say is this: I review books for fun. I give my opinions. I'm not going to like everything about a book. But I'm going to be respectful and honest when I write my reviews. It's not in my interest to offend anyone or cause drama. I know everyone appreciates honesty but I really hope that no one is offended by anything I may have said before, anything I'm saying right now or anything I may say in the future.
Thanks for reading this. It means a lot. And it'll mean a lot more to me if you guys commented and told me how you feel about honesty in reviews. Hopefully, I'll be able to orient myself over this internal conflict with the help of your thoughts.
Also, check out Frankie's Good Author's Guide To Bad Reviews and Alex's (of Electrifying Reviews) Opinions on Negative Reviews. They really helped me gather my thoughts for this review.





























